Sunday, September 12, 2010

What are you?

My daughter had a soccer game today and there are a few new players. I was introducing myself to some of the new mom's and welcoming them to the team. You know, just trying to be hospitable and all. Anyway, as I was shaking one particular mom's hand and telling her my name, my daughter's name...etc, she pulled me into her just a bit, looked me in the eyes and said, "What are you?"

Any of you confused? Well, I wasn't because it's about the millionth time in my life I have been asked that question. I've always thought it was kind of an odd question, and as a child the first time someone asked me that I was totally caught off guard. I've become fairly creative over the years on how I choose to answer that particular question. I mean, other than having my ethnicity tatooed across my forehead, I've had to think of some way to "explain myself" to the curious.

Fortunately for me, I was raised in a family where my amother was black and my adad was white. That is one positive thing I can most definitely say about my placement. I didn't stand out like a sore thumb amongst the rest of my family. As a matter of fact, I have been told on many occasions that I look "just like my sister" or my brother and I could "practically be twins".

Crazy! The random people that I come into contact with in my day to day life wondering what I am...well, I have an easy response for them. But you...how do you feel about that very same question? If you were asked, "What are you?", what would your answer be?

4 comments:

  1. I'd be so tempted to make many answers, most of them impolite which doesn't help sometimes.People are so rude!

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  2. I will never understand people that are so ignorant that they don't respect another. It is not as if mixed race children are all that uncommon. Geez - what is wrong with a grown up that they would ask such a stupid question?

    But then, when I first contacted my daughter's posted contact number, her mother in law at the time asked me what race she was....ignorance, irritating and worse.

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  3. oh my word... I can't believe that... well I can, but some people... oh my! It's crazy how much A looks like you in that pic!

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  4. Good grief. "People never cease to amaze me." Is that one of your sayings?

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